The word foster means to
bring up with care. Foster care is intended to be a temporary living
arrangement. It is supposed to be a separation between the child
and the parent and a chance for them to be able to work out whatever caused
the child to be in foster care so that when and if the child returns home,
they would return to the family life that they deserve.. Foster care
can be in a foster home with many children or it can be with a foster parent
who allows the child to come into their home. Even a family member
can be the child's foster parent. There are many different types
of situations for foster care. Some of them include: abuse, biological
parents who are incapable of caring for a child, dead or missing biological
parents, parents who are being judged or in rehabilitation without another
parent to take care of the child, children who are in trouble with the
law and parents are given the choices between giving them to a welfare
agency or taking care of the situation like adults, and teen parents who
want a second chance at education and can't handle both school or work
along with a child.
Sometimes foster care is not described
as ideal, but it is better than living with an abusive or incapable
parent. Foster care has been described as drastic social surgery.
It gives the parent(s) and the child a time to work out their problems
and the parents to become a better parent. The child welfare agency
is in charge of the legal portion of the foster situation, but some biological
parents don't agree with the foster care step. If the step is completely
necessary, the parents can be forced to go to court and the judge can rule
for the child to be placed in foster care without the parents' consent.
After the child has been place in foster care, there are still some serious
questions that need to be answered. These are: How long will the
child remain in care? While he or she is living away from home, will
there be any visits with the natural parents? If so, how often?
Where will the parent or parents visit with their child and how long will
the visits last? What steps do the parents need to take before the
family can be reunited, that is, before the child returns home? How
will the child welfare agency or the court recognize that these steps have
been taken? If it looks as though the child will never be able to
return home, would adoption be an option? If adoption is not a possibility,
what kind of long term arrangement will best suit the child?
In one study, just over 50% of
the children placed in foster care returned home within six months.
However, a quarter of the children in the same study had been in foster
care for at least 2 years. Many of the children who enter foster
car never live with their original parents again. Certain parents
cannot give the child the love and care that they need. The children
deserve something better.
At birth, a child becomes part
of the family and home of the biological parents. Being a parent
involves more than just having the child. One recent theory that
has influenced child welfare planning is that of the psychological parent.
The psychological parent is not only the person who meets all of the
child's needs, but also gives the child the warm affectionate feeling,
their trust, and the feeling of being wanted by someone. The child
feels that the psychological parent is the person that they can trust and
always count on. They are the child's parent whether they are
blood related or not. In most cases, the biological parents becomes
the psychological parents unless some other adult takes on the role.
If the child is in foster care for a long time, the foster parent may become
the psychological parent. This will most likely happen if the child
is put into foster care as an infant or at a very young age. Some
social welfare planners believe that the most important thing that people
can do for children is to make sure that they stay with the psychological
parent. They say that providing a child with the security of living
with someone they trust and know they are loved by is a lot more important
than the rights of the biological parents.
Other people who are interested
in child welfare have a different way of describing how important security
is for children. They believe the foster care system should be more
interested in finding every child a permanent home. This is known
as permanency planning. Permanency planning became a US law
in 1980 when the Congress passed House Bill in 96-272, the Adoption Assistance
and Child Welfare Reform Act. This law states that every child has
the right to a permanent family atmosphere. It requires that the
child welfare agencies make a definite plan for a child's future when they
take the child into foster care. It should identify a specific living
arrangement as the goal for the child. It should also spell out the
steps that the caseworkers and the child's biological parents will take
so that the child is able to live in that permanent home within some reasonable
time period. According to the PL 96-272, the decision about a permanent
home should be decided by the time the child has been in foster care for
18 months. In most cases, there is two kinds of permanent living
arrangement. These are: the child may return to his or her
parents and the parents will give up their parental rights and the child
is able to be adopted by a family.
If you or anyone you know is in
a situation at home where they are being abused or their parents have left,
you need to tell someone immediately. Sometimes the people in bad
situations don't accept that what their parents are doing is wrong or they
want to somehow protect their parents by not telling anyone. If you
know someone like this, you need to talk to them and tell them that both
the person in a bad situation and his or her parents need help. Tell
them that they deserve to be loved and that they deserve a better life.
If they still don't see the dangers, you need to tell an adult about it.
The adult will know who to call and what to do. Even though you may
not think that there are very many children in foster care or in bad tough
situations, the federal government estimated that 276,000 children were
in foster care as of 1987. I admire the children who have come out
of bad situations and have had the courage to go on in foster care.
Bibliography
Hales, Dianne. The Encyclopedia of Health: The Family
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New York, New York: Chelsea House
Publishers, 1988.