Relationships
Teenagers are being introduced to different types of relationships each and every day of thier lives. For instance in friendships they are faced by difficulties of choosing who are the best friends for them, they have to choose friends from school, church and from the area that they are living in. They have to choose their soul mate and make sure that they are being satiesffied to each and everything that they are doing together.
Friendship
Carmel had friends at school and she took one of them as a best friend, she told her every thing about herself and her family problems. It happened that one day they had a miss understanding, her best friend told everybody about her{Carmel} so call secrets, so from that day it was hard for Carmel to ever trust anyone even people from her own family. The other friend of her try to calm her,she told her that things were the same because already people know how did she suffer with her family.Pamela encourage her to go for councelling, she was the one who helped her through the difficuld times, and that was the kind of friend who was needed to be for a best friend.That simply means a friend in need was a friend in deed to Carmel.
Sometimes you have to make your own decisions,cause your friends can not always make choices for you. You can't be influenced by every body you hang around with. One needs to have his\her own principles, because of the wildness of the world you can find yourself doing drugs together with those you now call friends.
IN ORDER TO FIND A TRUE FRIEND,YOU NEED TO ASK YOURSELF THESE KIND OF QUESTIONS:
· Is this person trustworthy?
· Do we influence each other in ways I like?
· Does this person help me achieve my goals?
· Does this person make me feel good about myself?
· Do we have a lot in common, like beliefs and goals?
· Is this person fun to be with?
Dating
Dating is the way people can get to know each other better. It requires responsible behaviour, that simply means you have to be considerate and careful. Partners must plan activities that they will both enjoy. Being considerate to your parents is to let them know enough about your plans so they will not worry about you when you are out on a date.You can be careful on a date by thinking before you act and carefully choosing who you go out with. Doing things together is fun, sharing good times makes people feel good about each other and it makes people feel good about themselves.
Many young people begin dating at a very young age, others don't date until they are old enough. There are differrent kinds of dates, dating is not only a boy and agirl going out alone together. Couples can go out with other couples and that is called ''DOUBLE DATING'', people can go out in groups too. Dating is also not about one party fulfilling it's own desires.