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Family Eating

A happy family has been planned. Every one

 in it loves each other and do not rush into

 things without talking about it first!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Man in bed

There's more to going to bed with someone

 than you think. Remember when you were a

 kid, your bed was very safe? Keep it that

 way!

The Ultimate Thinking session

          Nowadays we know more about sex than we should...how great it is, how everyone is doing it, how you don’t love me if you won’t have sex with me, how being a virgin is a bad thing, how sex is the latest craze and how it’s just sex.

          We are young and at our age sex should not be an issue. The average 14-18 year old teenager thinks about sex relatively often especially boys.

          Imagine getting a cell phone, a hi-fi, a laptop, an electric guitar, a car, a skateboard and a pair of Bondi Blue shades all in one year! Yes, great! You can show them all off but what do you have to look forward to when you turn 17 or 18 the next year if you already have all that stuff? Your life should have a pattern and it should be balanced.

          It’s exactly the same in a relationship. In a normal relationship the pattern is: You first get to know someone and then you hold hands then you go out then you kiss then you get to know the person some more them you have sex!

          Now imagine a relationship like this: Hi...sex...Bye. Sounds pretty yuck hey? Oh and don't forget the consequences of unprotected sex!

 

Reasoning

          Think you're ready to go all the way? You and your partner are both planning to have a seriously delightful night together? Are you sure? Sexually transmitted infections, unplanned pregnancy, and emotional doubts are all good reasons to wait! Before you go too far, take a look at this list, or make up your own ways to finish this important sentence...

You're not ready to have sex if:

  1. You think sex equals love
  2. You feel pressured
  3. You're afraid to say no
  4. It's just easier to give in
  5. You think everyone else is doing it
  6. Your instincts tell you not to
  7. You don't know the facts about pregnancy
  8. You don't understand how birth control works
  9. You don't think a woman can get pregnant the first time
  10. It goes against your moral beliefs
  11. It goes against your religious beliefs
  12. You'll regret it in the morning
  13. You feel embarrassed or ashamed
  14. You're doing it to prove something
  15. You can't support a child
  16. You can't support yourself
  17. Your idea of commitment is a 3-day video rental
  18. You believe sex before marriage is wrong
  19. You don't know how to protect yourself from the HIV virus that causes Aids
  20. You don't know the signs and symptoms of sexually transmitted infections (STI's, also called STD's)
  21. You think it will make your partner love you forever
  22. You think it will make you love your partner
  23. You think it will keep you together
  24. You hope it will change your life
  25. You don't want it to change your life
  26. You're not ready for the relationship to change
  27. You're drunk
  28. You wish you were drunk
  29. Your partner is drunk
  30. You expect it to be perfect
  31. You'll just die if it's not perfect
  32. You can't laugh together about awkward elbows and clumsy clothes
  33. You're not ready to take off your clothes
  34. You think HIV and AIDS only happen to other people
  35. You think you can tell who has HIV by looking at them
  36. You don't think teens get HIV
  37. You don't know that abstinence is the only 100% protection against sexually transmitted infections and pregnancy
  38. You haven't talked about tomorrow
  39. You can't face the thought of tomorrow
  40. You'd be horrified if your parents found out
  41. You're doing it just so your parents will find out
  42. You're too scared to think clearly
  43. You think it will make you more popular
  44. You think you "owe it" to your partner
  45. You think it's not OK to be a virgin
  46. You're only thinking about yourself
  47. You're not thinking about yourself
  48. You can't wait to tell everyone about it
  49. You hope no one will hear about it
  50. You really wish the whole thing had never come up

          Well that should give you quite a bit of thinking to do. I really suggest that you let as many people read this list since it is quite comprehensive and covers basically every topic you can think of. I again must heartily recommend that you re-read this list if you find yourself in any one of the positions above and think to yourself if its worth it!