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resolution of nightmares: As
mentioned previously, nightmares are warnings of problems that the dreamer is having but
hasnt properly looked into. The best way to prevent nightmares from occurring is to
develop better awareness of ones self. This may include taking more time and
consideration in resolving problems, and to never ignore them. Also, one should pay more
attention to the subtle messages that his or her regular dreams imply. As suggested, the
occurrence of nightmares should then decrease as self-awareness increases.
In cases where nightmares do occur, the most effective way in
dealing with them is to understand the cause of the nightmare, and to deal with it
promptly. The following example taken from the Dream Interpretation - Secret by David F.
Melbourne and Dr. Keith Hearne website best demonstrates this fact:
"The subject was male, aged 32, and could neither be
classed as extrovert nor introvert. The nightmare had occurred approximately three times a
week for six months.
The dream was fairly simple and involved him riding a horse
at speed - in the Grand National. As he approached a fence, he realized that he was going
too fast to take the jump and came to grief when the horse stumbled. He then managed to
pick himself up and get into a car which suddenly appeared. Injured from the fall, he
raced off in the direction of a hospital - in a race with other motorists - but again went
too fast. He always woke up at the moment he crashed headlong into a brick wall."
When the dream was analyzed, the therapist and patient
determined that there was a situation in his life that caused him a lot of pressure.
The horse and the car represented how he was driving himself too hard and was even up for
promotion. Once the person realized this, he was able to take steps to relax more
and not drive himself too recklessly. Therefore, this is an example of a dream as a
early "warning device."
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