Opening Lines
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There's a certain stigma which society attaches to flirtatious women.
Branded as desperate and cheap,
most women submit to this pressure and let the men do all the chasing.
This doesn't have to be the case. In a
recent study, over 60% of the men interviewed said that they were
"turned on" and felt intense sexual desire when women
flirted with them.
Formulating An
Opening Line
When formulating an opening line, it is
vital that you don't see it as some sort of sexual invitation but as a
sort of introduction to yourself. Opening lines must never be
condescending, never insulting.
Normally, they are disguised as a
question, something innocent like, "Hi! I've seen you around here
for some time now but I've never gotten the opportunity to talk to you
personally. Want to grab a coke?"
Are Opening Lines
For You?
There are three main reasons why women
don't use opening lines.
- They feel it's inappropriate for a
woman to do the chasing.
- They are scared of rejection.
- They don't feel confident enough to
"pull it off".
As for the first reason, we have
explained earlier that it's perfectly okay for women to assume a more
dominant role in a relationship. Times have changed and men enjoy
being flattered once in a while.
As for 2 and 3, read up on our article
on Overcoming Your
Fears Of Rejection to become more confident the next time you try
to flirt with men.
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