Tell him he looks good.
Find something about his appearance that you
really like and point it out to him. His nice lips, sexy legs, or
friendly smile.
Compliment his skills/technique
in bed.
It seems to be general knowledge that men love
when a woman gives them sexual compliments. Some women are shy about
this, but they shouldn't be, a great deal of a man's sexual
satisfaction comes from knowing that he is satisfying his partner.
If he works out compliment his
great posture.
Or even better - if he has great posture ask him
if he works out. Compliment his muscle control, his endurance, etc. Be
careful, it's easy to go too far with this, don't just say things to
flatter him, and don't go on and on about how big his muscles are. A
simple comment that you're impressed by how well he does his exercises
is fine.
Ask him for help.
If he is at the gym doing the leg press and you
don't know how to use it, go ask him to show you. If your car hasn't
been working, ask if he would look at it. The point here is that he
gets to be the expert, by helping you he feels smart and competent,
and complimented.
Compliment his
relationship skills.
This is great because if you say something like:
"I really like when you hug me for no reason" he will feel
happy because you are pleased by him, and so he will do more of what
he knows pleases you. You both benefit from this. Compliment his
listening skills, how understanding he is, how generous he is, take
notice of all the sweet romantic things he does for you, etc