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As always, there are lots of potential pitfalls one might stumble into when dating. Learn to avoid them  like the plague.

Setting Unrealistic Expectations

We all know what kind of men we like. They have to be tall, dark and handsome. 

Therein lies the problem, 99% of the time, men fall way short of your expectations. To be fair, it's not their fault, it's just that sometimes, your expectations are much too high. They won't be the Brad Pitt, Tom Cruise or James Bond of your dreams, they're just ordinary people like you and me.

Not Being Yourself

Lets imagine for a moment that you're dating this really huge hunk of a guy. He does pushups for breakfast and expects you to do the same. 

Pretending to be some sort of superwoman won't help. It might get him to like you initially, but sooner or later he'll find out your true self. If you can't get him to accept you for what you are, then how can you expect him to stay in a relationship.

Not Telling Him The Truth

If you don't think he's Mr. Right, then say so! In a nice way, of course. If you think that the both  of you are not compatible, you can do no wrong by speaking up. It'll save loads of heartbreak afterwards.

Asking For Too Much Too Soon

Men are scared of commitment. It means giving up their freedom, their right to do as they please. It's not that they are unwilling to settle down, it's just that you need to give them time. Talking about marriage in the first six months could possibly ruin your chances forever. Asking him to go steady on the first date is wildly inappropriate. Let things go at a steady pace, and you won't be disappointed.

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