A Girl's Guide To Avoiding Emotional Blackmailers
The Emotional Blackmailer is easy to recognize, but women seldom do
until they are well and truly sucked into his web. It is best to avoid
getting close to him because it is quite difficult to get away from
him. Stalkers start out as emotional blackmailers. Just the word
"blackmailer" should give you a clue of what depth of
self-centered behavior is lying in wait to be sprung on you the minute
you are hooked. Here are the roots and the signs, the way he
progresses to hook his victim, and how to get away from him.
What Creates an
A combination of neglect, coldness, spoiling and lack of nurturing
in infancy and childhood. This can be ascertained by comments he makes
about his parents - both of them. He will hate them and resent them,
while still taking his laundry home to mommy even when she lives in
the next STATE.
His mom is blamed for him not knowing how to do anything - she
never even taught him to make his bed or hang up his wet towel, and
she didn't feed him; his dad is blamed for him choosing a profession
that he is ill-suited for - any profession that wasn't his
He will say they are both critical of him, and never gave him any
support for anything he wanted to do to better himself. This may be
the sad truth, but he uses it as an excuse to get everyone he meets
for the rest of his life to serve his needs. He does not have empathy
- in this way he is like the sociopath to whom people are objects.
Article written by Suzanne
Bitches International 1996-2000
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