1. You did something that angered her (cheated on her, lied to her etc) 
2. Crises of circumstance. Maybe she wants to go for a career, the parents discourage the relationship (common in Asian countries) etc. 
3. There is someone else 
4. She simply lost interest in you (does not necessarily mean there is someone else) 

Normally, the reason why she is breaking up with you is never clear cut. It could be a combination of two, maybe three of the above. 

Your job is stop your pathetic whimpering and identify them. Cry if you like. It is natural to let loose your emotions but never lose sight of your primary goal, to get her to tell you why she broke up with you in the first place.

The simple, "Could you please honestly tell me why you are breaking up with me?" should work since she most likely has prepared a list of answers for you. Once you have identified the reasons, it's time to formulate a plan of action as suggested in our next chapter on getting her back.

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