Okay, so how do we use physiological arousal to make her "love" us... or at least like us a little more? (Arguments, fighting, fear, and other sources of negative arousal are not recommended by the way. It's best if the arousal you're using is of a pleasurable, or at least neutral, nature.)

Answer: By simply doing enjoyable yet arousing things together.

There is an endless variety of physiologically arousing things you can do with your "dream girl" which can help to intensify her emotional reactions toward you (and, by the way, intensifying your emotional reactions toward her... you were warned). Most of these things involve something which I've come to label fun. Now most people don't have a clue what fun is or how to go about achieving it. And it's usually the 1last thing on their minds when trying to decide what to do on a date. After all, dates are supposed to be tense, stressful, serious, getting-to-know-one-another things. Right?

Wrong!

You know, now, that fun and arousal leads to love and passion. You just have to use your imagination and come up with some innovative ways to generate the "extra" arousal you're going to need.

Ever had a "date" at an amusement park? What fun! Thrilling roller coasters, drenching waterslides, breath-taking Ferris wheels. What a perfect date. What an arousing date.

Instead of dinner and a movie, how about dinner and dancing. Movies do nothing but take your minds off one another for a couple hours. But dancing involves fun and arousal. Excellent.

I've already mentioned working out together. Not only will the physiological arousal make you look more appealing to her, but you just might wind up getting in shape too.

How bout those new indoor rock climbing places popping up all over? Or bowling? Or riding your bicycles together? Or roller blading? Or a friendly match of tennis? Or a concert or sporting event where you get to stand up and yell a lot? These all involve FUN and arousing experiences and will help to intensify her emotional reactions toward you.

Do you have a motorcycle? This is a goldmine. Stick her on the back of it (unless she's deathly afraid of it). Not only will she be physiologically aroused from the ride, but, as a side benefit, she's got her arms wrapped around you the whole time. mmm.

I've mentioned just a few of the hundreds of ways available to boost the arousal level. Use your imagination. And always listen for any suggestions she has that involve increased arousal and say, "That sounds like fun."