Both honesty and respect are vital to maintaining a relationship. You have to trust your partner, if not, you’ll be kept awake wondering who they’re with and whether they’re still faithful.. Don’t perpetually ask, "Who were you with," or "What did you do". There’s a difference between genuine interest and suspicion. Insecurity will poison and ultimately kill your relationship

If you find yourself straying, or simply don’t love your partner anymore, it’ s always best to come clean. Don’t lie or pretend that you’re not going out with someone else. It may always seem more convenient to hide the truth, but you will be delaying the inevitable. But as always, be considerate. Please don’t break the news just before major exams or finals and never, ever leave the message on the answering machine.

Do understand if your partner is unable to return calls immediately or doesn’t write that often. You must respect your partner’s new lifestyle, even if it doesn’t revolve around you any more. It helps to tell your partner what you did, how you’re feeling, where you think your relationship is heading, etc. It helps cut down on those pangs of loneliness and yearning, and provides a constructive avenue for letting go. Don't forget to tell them about the good things happening in your life as well as the bad ones!