Communication is an absolute must in any long distance relationship. Whether it’s via phone, email or ICQ, keeping in touch is an absolute must. If you’re using the phone, it’s a good idea to compromise and take turns paying the phone bill. Unless your significant other is super rich, the long distance bills can be a real strain in the relationship.

Email is a godsend to most couples living thousands of miles apart. A quick, "Hello, I love you" in the inbox can really brighten someone’s day. In addition to that, there are a host of internet phone software packages that don’t cost much and allow you to make long distance calls without those maddening long distance rates. A real letter, the kind using an envelope and stamps is important too. Most people include a lock of hair, or a card with their perfume sprayed on it to remind each other of their love. Some even exchange underwear to be washed and returned. All by mail.

Don’t forget birthdays, anniversaries or other significant events. Make sure that you’ve ordered a bouquet of roses and a sincere, heartfelt card to be delivered on that special day. A Hallmark alone won’t do. Once in a while, it’s nice to include a recent photo as well.