Whenever you go dating, you will often encounter that dreadful time when your date announces that she has to get back. Often, this period will be full of tension as both of you are unsure of what to say. It is of utmost importance that you avoid this awkward period by announcing to your date, when the date is still going well, that you "...hate to end the evening because you've had such a great time, but it is getting late and..."
This will surely take her by surprise since most people, and certainly most of her former boyfriends would try and hang on, hoping to get "lucky". By ending the date, you:
Set yourself apart from her ex-boyfriends, giving yourself a sort of "rarity value".
Maintain control of the date throughout, even till the end, thus increasing your confidence level.
Give the clear message that you are not desperate for action, so she will have to step up her efforts if she wants to seduce you.
Taking Stock
If this is your first date, you should assess how the date went. Answer these three questions truthfully and honestly:
Did the date go well at all? Did you have fun? If not, why? Lack of communication maybe? Stage fright? What? Did she enjoy it? This you can easily tell from the vibes you get from her. Check out our section on
Flirting, Telling if a woman is attracted to
you for more details.
Do you want to go out again? Answer this honestly and truthfully. Remember, you're not obliged to go out on a second date. Neither is she.
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