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Instead, why don't you say this line? It's proven to work. Memorize this
opening line. Remember it. Bookmark this page and keep looking at it. Never forget it.

"Hey! I would really like to get together and do something with you sometime."

Now, she can't say, "Sorry, I'm not free" (By far the most popular rejection line) because you haven't set the time yet. In fact, you have not even asked her for a date yet! Now is your chance to observe her reaction (refer to my section on Flirting, Signs women give when aroused). If it's negative, forget about it. Remember, you haven't asked her out yet so you haven't been rejected! Using this method will protect you from rejection and make you more confident the next time you try and ask a single woman out. But if she lights up and says "OK" or if she emits any one of the signals explained in Flirting, How to tell if a single girl likes you, continue with:

"You know, I would really like to go out with you when you're free. How about Lunch at Tony Romas on Tuesday?"

Firstly, she can't say, "Sorry not free." simply because it'll make her sound like a complete idiot since she has already said that she would like to go out with you. By all means try saying it out aloud yourself. If she really is not free that day, simply ask her when she will be able to make it. Secondly, she has to be free sometime right? Using this proven technique will ensure that you score when asking single women out.

Look, this method isn't fool proof. If she does not want to go out with you, there is no way you can force her to go out on a date. For example, one of the teens we counseled reported that when he used this line on a friend, she kept on saying that she was not free, although it did sound pretty awkward. It went something like this. 

Him: What about Saturday?
Her: Not free.
Him: Sunday?
Her: I'm busy.
Him: Next Saturday?
Her: Sorry, I really cannot make it.

He took the hint and ended the conversation. However, on the plus side, it is of interest to note that because he said "Hey! I would really like to get together and do something with you sometime" She had to reply with, "Okay, like what?" and he was never rejected outright. This is much less painful than having, "Would you like to go out?" answered with an outright, "No." Another method she could have used to dissuade him would be to explain that she already had a boyfriend.

This method is best used when asking face to face. It might be easier for you to ask her out on the phone but remember, it is also easier for her to reject you on the phone as well. And never, ever, use ICQ.

This article generously provided by Don Diebel. For more tips on how to meet, attract and seduce women, do visit GetGirls.com

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