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Eating like this
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2. Body Stress
Tolerance - this refers to the amount of stress that
your body is able to withstand without totally breaking down. This
has to do with your physical resources: how healthy your
body is. This is determined by how fit you are, how much sleep you
get and how well you eat.
3.
Age - Each developmental stage that a person goes
through has its own set of stressors.
- The
infant's main developmental task is to establish a sense of
self and getting the social/emotional needs met by family as
mentioned above (see self-concept)
- The
preteen and teenage years move the focus from family
to peers in the form of social life and school. Many teenagers are
stressed as a result of pressure to be "cool" and to succeed.
Socially, friends and popularity can become a big stress if a
teenager doesn't have as many friends as s/he wants so s/he may
choose to smoke and do drugs to look (and feel) cool and popular.
At school, internal and external pressures arise: external from
family and teachers who want the teenager to do well and from peers
(the fear of being labeled a "nerd" could constrict someone from
working). Internally, the teenager could
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The
retired person has a whole new set of stressors to deal
with!
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push
him/herself wanting to do more, faster and better. The belief that
s/he cannot do well or low self-confidence and lack of
self-esteem (poor self concept) can cause stress.
- Adult stressors are qualitatively different but still
huge in number. A single person has to work out finance-management,
living security, work and time for socializing. With a family,
these are all multiplied because one has to worry about oneself,
spouse and children. There are so many responsibilities that adults
have, and it's these pressures/frustrations/conflicts that result
in high stress levels.
- The
pensioner (retired person) has three main situations that
induce stress (some, or all of these may be experienced):
Loss of health, status, work, independence and friends, with
increased dependency on others (financial, physical, emotional) and
the possibility of living in an old-age home where freedom and
privacy may be diminished.
At
different times in one's life, some stressors will have a greater
impact than others because of the person's situation, needs and
life experiences.