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Proposition: Teenagers are capable of true love. Response: True love is an emotion that most human beings experience at some point in their lives. Love itself comes in many different forms, some of which are experienced at different stages of life than others. Different people acquire the ability to experience true love at different times in their lives. Adolescence is the stage in ones life where a person crosses the threshold between childhood and adulthood; their physical, intellectual, and emotional selves begin to evolve in parallel. True love is not a childhood emotion, but as soon as a person enters adolescence, their capacity for experiencing it begins to develop. For some, but not all people, this occurs in the teenage years. For others, it may happen earlier, or later. The fact is, that no two people are the same, and it is hopeless to try and place a definite timeframe on when this happens. Statistically, it happens between the ages of thirteen and nineteen, but this does not account for everyone. A small percentage of people are probably capable of experiencing true love before they enter their teenage years. Another small percentage probably dont gain this ability until later in their lives. This is because everyone matures at a different rate. For romantic reasons, someone who has not yet entered adolescence, could experience the same emotions as someone who has matured to the level required. Although the physical aspects might be absent, the emotional impact would be the same. It is still true love in this case. On the other hand, someone who has passed adolescence might lack the ability to experience true love, due to a genetic or developmental disorder. Statistically, though, teenagers have reached the level of emotional maturity necessary to experience true love, although this doesnt mean that all teenagers have. Everyone is unique, and it is inappropriate to place a stereotypical clause on a persons capability of experiencing true love. It is unfair, especially since this emotion is so complex that we will probably never fully understand it. Each person feels true love in his or her own unique way. The only person fit to be chosen to discern ones capability of true love, is that person himself/herself. True love is an emotion that can be experienced by anyone, young or old, provided that they have reached the required level of emotional maturity. The point at which one reaches this level is not determined by age alone. Some, if not all, teenagers are certainly capable of experiencing true love. |