Stess is a part of all our lives. It is especially likely to happen when you're experiencing changes--either happy or upsetting changes.
You may be feeling a lot of stress now if:
- You're experiencing--or facing--a change in schools.
- Your physical development is behind or ahead that of most of your classmates.
- There are problems at home: parents fighting, an alcoholic parent, a serious illness in the family, money worries, a parental separation or divorce, psychological or physical abuse from a parent or sibling.
- Someone close to you died in the past year--a grandparent, parent or other close relative, a special friend, or a pet.
- Everyone in your life seems to expect a lot of you now--from the coach at P.E. to all your teachers and your parents.
- You're feeling a lot of conflicting things: sometimes loving and sometimes feeling close to hating your parents; wanting to be on your own, but sometimes secretly wishing you could be a little kid and totally taken care of again; feeling close to, yet competitive with, a good friend; wanting to be a good person, but feeling that, lots of times, you fall short.
What are other things that may causes you to experience stress?
- Having a job
- Extra-curricular activities that are time consuming
- Not fitting in to a social group
- School expectations
- Parent expectations
- Being unable to prioritize things -- it all seems important
- Being pushed & pulled by different classes
- Lack of preparedness from middle school
There are other causes of stress too, some of which may not even seem stressful.
- Burning the supper
- Living with divorce
- Hosting a party
- Receiving a promotion
- Moving
- Losing a child
- Going on vacation
- Living alone