Posted by DaveT on October 02, 1998 at 16:00:29:
In Reply to: Re: BOYFRIENDS WHO ARE DADDIES posted by rese on September 25, 1998 at 01:19:01:
: Hi there Sonja,
: Hon, I'm not sure as to what to say to this. Please, make sure you have someone around to help you in case you cannot find your boyfriend. Did he mention anything to you about why he was leaving and where he was going? Please, do take care of yourself and make sure you have friends and family to support you when your baby is on its way.
: : COULD YOU PLEASE TELL ME IF A MAN GETS UP CLEARS HIS THINGS OUT AND LEAVES WHEN HE KNOWS HE IS GOING TO BE A DADDY IN 2-3 WEEKS WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO DO???
: : WE BOTH STILL LOVE EACH OTHER VERY MUCH BUT I CAN'T FIND HIM ANY WHERE
Get child support!! from him - it's the law!!! - for your kids sake!
Goto a lawyer and get a legally binding document
(you will need to do this someday (between when born and when the kid is 18) - do it once the baby is born and things settle down a little)
and do as Rese suggests!
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