Posted by JJ on October 29, 1999 at 14:09:37:
In Reply to: mental posted by charu on October 27, 1999 at 02:04:51:
: I AM NOT FRANK AND HESITATE TO TALK WITH OTHERS.
The problem with being so shy is that people tend to think you are a bit snobby when in reality that isn't the case at all. Try just saying and hello and smiling at people when they look at you just to acknowlege them. You don't have to talk a lot to get to know someone either. Ask them questions about their lives, what they like to do, their interests. I've always found that people like to talk about themselves especially when they think someone is interested.