...Adaption of Teens...
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Someone could get their own friends if they’re adapting in their community. The age when people are trying to find their new friends is in the age of teenagers. People said that being a teenager is the time when you’ll enjoy your life the most, but though, it won’t be that nice if we’re being trapped in the wrong community, wrong friends, and even wrong action. No wonder making choices when we’re adapting with our social is such a thing that we need to think of so that we won’t fall on the wrong decision.
Community isn’t always only in the real life, such as our friends who we meet at school and neighbors. Community with friends also can be found in the internet, as these days we could see that most of the teenagers use Facebook, Bebo, MySpace and else as one of their way to communicate and adapt in their community.
Without communicating and trying to adjust, it would be really hard to get friends. For an example, when you’re moving out from your country and come as a stranger in the new community, you’ll sometimes feel a little bit awkward. People still don’t know who you are, and the only way to make them understand more about you is by adapting with them. Introduce who you are, talk to them and talk together, who knows you got the same interest with them? The next step to make them known you better is by hanging out together. By hanging out, you could have a lot more time to talk with them, sharing stories and information. Having fun together is an important thing in adapting with someone.
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Some difficulties will be appearing when someone is having a hard time on adapting. The causes are sometimes because that they’re awkward with others, having harsh self-criticism, and self-consciousness. These reasons could make teenagers less likely to join in some activities with the community. They could even have difficulties in forming friendship. When a teenage is having a lonely time, they could do some negative peer pressure to use some drugs, alcohol, and else. In a time like this, parents and families could be the only one who could help them.
There is another problem that might occur when they’re trying to adapt with their surrounding which is social phobia. Social phobia is a type of anxiety problem, means that they often feel shy and even have a powerful fear. In case, they will automatically avoid their social life and they could missed their opportunities for having friendship and fun. Having social phobia isn’t a nice thing to have, some ways could be used to help them overcomming the phobia. A therapist is one way to reduce the social phobia, yet family and friends should keep supporting them. Having social phobia isn’t their fault, and it isn’t something that can’t be erased. By having patience and courage, social phobia could be erased from the teenager’s life.
Overall, adapting is the beginning of having relationship. In this case, teenagers should make sure that they’re adapting in the right community, and once they think it isn't a good community then they should avoid it. Parents are the one who need to make sure that their son/daughter is in the right track. Don’t forget to keep support the son/daughter because without the support, people often feel so unconfident. Making a good choice impact on the future, start it over by adapting in your community!