12 steps to help your child to succeed in school
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Give your child to understand, without oppression, that the school is serious
business and expect to do the best, according to his strength.
 Established regular study hours each child needs a routine.
Established a study period, according to the age
where they can, without temptation, in a quiet and pleasant environment to do
the homework. Helped when needed, but do not give in to temptation «resume
school» and you, by all subjects of the child.
 He met his teacher, (teachers)
Know who will spend many hours each day your child. He asked for the rules of
the study at home. Discuss with him any issue concerning the child and it is
good to know the teacher.
 Not to a rail
Children have tremendous capacity to use their parents or teachers, one against
another. For any question or doubt, contact the other person to have a clear
picture, not confused at any point.
 Assessed the work of the child and give him prize
There is no worse frustration when the child, after the trouble of taking
criticism or indifference. When you appreciate the work, appreciate the very
kind and encouraging them to improve.
 Develop a feeling of responsibility the child is constantly solvent a desk at school, and usually has a sloven bedroom home.
He who does not finish its work in
school hours, usually are not as responsible and at home. Created a system of rewards and discipline, so there is room
in the class of the child, and some general cleaning responsibilities at home,
even if you do not like it as well. It may also be increases in the
pocket when a job ends. It is good to learn early on to participate in home
 Check the TV
All the boys agree that children watch more television than; it should. It is
not only time but also low quality and unsuitable programs affecting the
creativity and sense of reality.
Parents need to monitor the programs their children watch and limit the time
they spend in front of the «box». Also, some programs to see together to become
a similar criticism of the program attended.
 Right expectations
Wait by your child to achieve the best we can. To be successful in school, will
help be successful later in life. Children need to be targeted to the best
extent possible to achieve. Do not accept just passing grades. On the other
hand, not overstated and requires something more than their forces. «We have
less and we are happier».
 Be realistic
Assessed the skills that your child with the utmost sincerity, not ashamed of
its weaknesses, feels that you are responsible. Some children
doing well in most subjects, than others. But we are fighting all the
years of school to manage.
Parents create big disappointments when reserve their child to become a doctor,
although he is only interested in car engines. It is necessary to know that the
life of your child is not yours. Be proud of their skills in;;
 Encouraged interests outside school
Every child needs and any activities outside the school. Depending on the
interests of the child (sports, music, foreign languages, etc.), encourage the
child to engage in any activity, which has more appeal to create and identity
outside the home or school. This is particularly true in classes B and C grade.
As the child sees that he can engage in activities other than lessons, it
becomes more social, democratic and self-esteem to develop.
 Work on payment
The child has a part time and earn money, do more
responsible for economic and feels good about himself. Some jobs such as
babysitting, to help his father work, summer work, etc. may help the child to
mature, how to correctly handle the finances, but do not fall as the fund
The child needs someone to share with the problems, joys and regrets, with
small daily words. Often used by parents as a reference point for his ideas, or
even as a safety net for the queries and questions. Sometimes these ideas may
appear as absolute opinions. The child may seek ratification, acceptance or
even validation of your own principles. It may simply be trying to decide if it
is correct its own views.
In any case you are cool and ready to debate. Show your concern by offering
your own opinion. Mr. carefully what he says, even when they got bored or angry
with you;; what he says. Do you worry more when the
child is talking, than when you says it all, whether
you like what you hear or not.
Finally, remember that no parent is not, nor always feels successful. You can
however, reduce your frustration and influence effectively the success of your
child to school without your personal involvement in every area of life. This
creates a positive atmosphere and the best prospects for success in your home
and life in general with your child.