1.
Identify your usage pattern and practice the opposite
– Ruminate for a few moments and identify
your current habits of using the Net. What days
of the week do you typically log on? What time of
the day do you usually start? How long do you spend
on each typical session? To begin shaking off the
habit, practice the opposite. If your habit involves
you checking your e-mail or the Net first thing
in the morning, try taking a shower and breakfast
first instead. If your internet usage is nocturnal,
pushing you well beyond bedtime, use it only in
the daytime instead. If you logon before dinner,
wait until you finished your dinner before going
online. If you use it every weeknight, wait until
weekends, or if you’re an all-weekend user,
shift to just week-nights instead. It may be hard
at first, but soon you will manage to get the hang
of it and reduce the impact the usage has on your
life instead.
2.
Find external stoppers – Use the necessary
things and commitments in life you have to do and
places you need to go as prompters and markers to
remind yourself when to log off the Net, and schedule
your online time just before them. If you have to
leave for work or school at 7.30 A.M, go online
at 6.30 A.M to give yourself exactly one hour before
it’s time to quit, or decide that you will
have dinner at 6.30P.M, so sit down for an hour
of usage at 5.30P.M. There is always the danger
of you ignoring the natural alarms though, so a
real alarm clock may be used too. Keep it some distance
away from the computer so that you have to get up
to shut it off.
3.
Insert planned Internet time into your weekly schedule.
Usually, many attempts to cut down Internet usage
fail as result of user not determine enough to limit
the time. This is because those remaining slots
keeping coming. Thus it is suggested to set a reasonable
goal. Around 20 hours a week on-line. Design a schedule
and put these 20 hours in specific time slots. Keep
these sessions brief but often enough. This will
help you avoid craving and withdrawal. For example
plan on using the Internet from 7-9pm every night,
1-3pm and take a break, then 7-10pm on Saturday
and Sunday. This is effective as you have restricted
your amount of time online within these 20 hours
instead of unlimited uses. Incorporating a tangible
schedule of Internet use will give you a sense of
being in control, instead of having the Internet
control you.
Take note though, however, that these time-management
techniques may not necessarily work on the first
or second attempt. It’s not an instant and
miracle cure for what is potentially a major problem.
One must be motivated in the first place if he is
trying to regain control, and stick with the determination
until the problem is curbed.