Take
concrete steps to address the problems
Such
solution requires a third party to help you. He or she
may be a therapist or one of your family members.
The following example is an illustration of the
method. Peter needs a job, but due to his internet addiction,
he is unwilling to leave his computer find one. Thus, a third party steps
in to make sure she would take one concrete step
to find work everyday. It could be making one phone
call of request of job, writing a letter for interview.
After he took that concrete step, he could allow
himself to use the Internet for a fixed period of
time, as a reward for his effort.
Such
concrete job-looking steps may not be necessarily limited to only studying job
advertisement, pursuing interviews at different
companies, or meeting with career counselor. He
could also consider using this time at home to search
the possibility of a totally new career goal. As
long as he got a job and did well in the field,
he had almost kicked the addiction. However, stress
from work may start to build on. You could not totally
prevent him from use computers, but turn to this
technique for that specific time period, allow him
on-line as a way to ease his stress from the real
world.