Wedding ceremony

Wedding ceremony:

Wedding ceremony is quite different from other mentioned ceremonyies and after this ceremony bride will go to groom's house . Wedding ceremony is usually held in groom's house and all of its expenses must be payed by him. Sometimes to move in a house and live together any time soon,they usually hold espousal ceremony first and after some time they will going to have awedding ceremony. So based anthe time in terval between two ceremonies, espousal ceremony can be heldin one of these two ways: -maybe the espousals is only held in canonry and then postpone the ceremony to the wedding day -it is also possible to hold 2 different ceremonies one for espousal and another for the wedding but its only common between rich families. Anyhow these 2 ceremonies hcwe lots of things in common.

 

Wedding cards (invitation cards):

As we mentioned before a bout the handkerchief ceremony which was a way of inviting relatives for a wedding , nowadays they use well-patterned and colorful cards instead. Also the elders of both familes are not going to relatives houses for inviting them, because its bride and groom's duty to do this task. Purchasing wedding cards must be done while the couple are starting to buy wedding's goods.

 

Inviting the guests:

It is recommended that bride and groom should take the wedding's cards by themselves to the relatives' houses and invite them verbally and officially.

 

Wedding cake:

 They order a wedding cake because it’s a symbol of amiability and glory.in the wedding ceremony usually bride and groom put a small piece of cake in one anothers mouth and guests are also served with the in that way.although the custom of having all kinds of sweets has always been part of our wedding ceremonies put the custom of having cake in this ceremony , was taken from west. Decorating bride and grooms house after the wedding ceremony bride and groom will go to their own house and start their life together .their house must be decorated before. -if its possible its recommended to decorate the stairway with flowers and ribbons. -also a wreath can be hanged to their houses door. -You can also hang bells to the entrance of the house so by the time they are coming into the house it will ring.

 

Old female relatives :

Old female relatives usually point out this matter to others . It is also recommended to be a little more innovative about the decoration of the new couple's house key (key to their new house) Sometimes one of the bridesmaids dedicates the key to their new house, by putting it on a pillow , which is decorated by flowers and ribbons . It is also possible to decorate this key itself, with flowers an ribbons. Then groom should insert the key into the door's lock while bride is also helping him to open the door to their new house. At the end of the wedding ceremony bride's father usually accompanies bride and groom to bridal while he is holding Koran in one hand and bride and groom are standing on the other side of him. He read Koran and prays for them to have a happy life and stay together till the end of their lives with love and peace. Also he prays for them to have healthy and good natured children.