Some Traditions:
some families lay down cashmere in these trays. Some families place a big loaf-sugar in these trays which is symbol of happiness in life. Bride carries the tray & while the music is playing she dance and hold the tray in front of each guest and in the end puts the tray down in front of grooms mother. Grooms mother kisses the bride & give her money And again this will take place but this time grooms older sister or one of the younger girls in the family repeats it & puts the tray down in front of brides mother and all this happens while the guests are clapping singing and cheering First grooms mother opens all the gifts & shows them to all & mentions the granter's name. for example this cloth is presented by brides family. And we should thank the granter for these clothes which are for grooms brothers & grooms father And when all the gifts are opened groom's mother kisses bride's mother and thanlcs her. Now its bride's mother to repeat this: -showing weddings purchases. In some families they have a custom of showing weddings purchases by groom during patakhties ceremony. And its usually done like this. Wedding purchases are all gift wraped and place in decorate tray's or chic and pretty boxes. - Some families have the custom of giving gifts to families of bride patalchtie's ceremony. - Trays of wedding gifts which are purchased by groom are carried by relatives or sister s of the groom and after being showed to everyone they will place it infront of the bride. -bride opens all the gifts and shows the presents one by one -the person who is responsible for gifts can help the bride by taking them from the her and showing it to every one. -after finishing this part of ceremony bride and her mother thank grooms mother. -the person who is responsible to avrany the gifts should put them all in a suitcase. -bride shows the guests her jewels and gold bijoux which are buoy ht by the groom. the day after marriage of commande ,of the faithful Imam ali and Fatemeh. the morning after lmamdli and farewell's wedding prophet (prophet) mohamad went to visit her daughter and granted the newly weds some mille.