After the two families speak about the main topics, It's time to offer sweets. Usually a lady from the bride's family offers the sweets and while doing so she says, help yourself with some sweets. If you serve some tea with the sweets is much better. If the groom and his family take some sweets it means that they have approved the bride and they like her to be their bride. The women of the grooms family show their approval or disapproval by taking or nor taking the sweets. The brides family should take sweets cheerfully. Pay attention to the below points: - Serve from the groom's sweets too. - Offer the sweets with a smile and pleasure. - Take the sweet which is offered even if you don't like it or you can't eat. - Make sure that you eat the sweet and don't leave it on the plate.