Tradition of the "Grinding Girl" In my country Iran, there are very many
different traditions associated with marriage which should be very strictly
observed, otherwise bad luck is sure to ensue soon. For instance, on the night
before the marriage ceremony, three or four unmarried girls hold a clean white
cloth on the heads of the bride and bridegroom while they are sitting on a sofa
or on the ground. Then one of the girls start to grind two big nuggets of sugar
together. As she does that, she asks God to repel all evil spirits from the life
of the newly married couple. Before this, the families of the girl and the boy
should make sure that the "Grinding Girl" is very trustworthy and decent. This
will also provides the young unmarried girls with the chance to get married in
the coming years!